What Next

How to catch a cheating spouse

       Were you right?  Were you being cheated on?  Now its time to decide what to do with whatever information you may have uncovered. 

       If you were wrong you're faced with a bit of a moral dilemma.  Do you now tell your spouse that you suspected them of cheating?  Do you tell them that you have been rigorously investigating them for some time?  These questions are questions that only you can answer.

       If you were right though and you were or are currently being cheated on, you need to confront your spouse.  Before you do this you should have a plan in mind.  Decide if you plan to save the marrage or relationship.  If you think you have something that is worth saving, you should plan out your approach much more carefully.  If you plan to tell the cheater that you know what they did, throw their stuff out on the lawn, and never speak to them again, than you need little planning at all.  Do just that.

       Infidelity is a tricky business.  To help you through your decisions and make rational choices I have put together some recommended reading.  Take a look at some of these books before you do something you may regret later down the line.