Talk To Mutual Friends

How to catch a cheating Spouse

       Casual conversations with mutual friends can be give you some telling information.  The key is to not act suspicious or aggressive.  Ask questions that you already know the answers to and see what kind or response you get.  Mentions things that you think are true but don't know for sure.  If someone doesn't feel like they're being attacked they are more likely to speak freely.

       If you get lucky you may end up in a conversation with someone who doesn't know enough to know that you're being cheated on, but does know enough to give you key information that you did not already have.  These people will often have no idea that you're even paying attention to the details that they casually offer up.  These are the proverbially "loose lips that sink ships".

       Make sure that you have an escape plan if you attempt this tactic.  Be prepared to be patient.  You may have to retreat and take up your line of questioning at a later date or even with a different person.  You don't want to be discovered at this early stage in your investigation.  Once someone knows that your suspicious you will have a much harder time getting any information out or anyone.

       If you don't seem to be making any progress, and you are no close to catching your potentially cheating spouse, you may need to move on to a different approach.  It may be time to enlist the help of a friend.