Signs Of Cheating

How to chatch a cheating spouse

       These signs are not always a sign of a cheating spouse by themselves.  If you start to see several of them though or if some of them really stand out, you may need to do some investigating.  Remember that the first and best sign of a cheating spouse, is that you are already suspicious.  Trusting your instincts is best.  If you think there is something going on, there is a good chance that you are right.

Possible Signs that your husband or wife is cheating:

• Details disappear.  If your spouse normally tells you every little detail of thier day, and has recently been very vague with the details you may have something worth looking into.
• Too many details.  If you normally need to pry even the smallest details out of your spouse and now they bombard you with every detail of thier day the second they see you, you probably should be concerned.
• Quickly hanging up the phone when you enter the room unexpectidly.
• Constantly checking emails.
• Deleting text messages and email immediately.
• Opening a new email account that you dont know about.
• Money missing from checking or saving accounts.
• Your spouses friends begin to act strange around you.  This may indicate that they know something that they are unable to tell you.
• Unexplained credit card charges.
• Your spouse begins to work an excessive ammount of overtime at a job that may not require it.
• You no longer get invited to events like work parties, and bar-b-qs with your spouse.
• Spouse often does not answer thier cell phone when they are with you.
• Spouse often does not answer thier phone when you call.
• Change in taste of music, food, tv, or anything else.  We pick up a lot of the likes and dislikes of the people that we spend a lot of time with.  If your spouse is cheating they may begin to like some new things that they never had any interest in before.

       These are just a few signs.  If you suspect that you're being cheated on, more often than not, you should at least keep your eyes and ears open.  If you see some signs of cheating, it may be time to get conformation.

Catching a Cheating Spouse