Investigation

How to catch a cheating spouse

       If you've decided that there is a good chance that your husband or wife is cheating on you it's time to find out for sure.  What follows is a list of ways to gather more information.  Investigating your own spouse can be a tricky business and should not be done lightly.  You can however poke around and not get too serious just for some piece of mind.

       We'll start from least invasive and move on to more serious measures.

Methods to find the truth:

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• Talk to friends:  A casual conversation with friends could reveal a lot more than you expect.  Especially if you take them by surprise.
• Enlist the help of a friend:  Some people may answer the questions of a friend of yours more honestly than they would answer you.
• Check thier cell phone history:  Cell phone history is a great tool.  If you are married to the person that may be cheating on you you probably have easy access to thier cell phone bill.
• Check thier credit card statements:  Credit card history may also help.  Again, if you are in fact married, you should have easy access to this important resource.
• Have a friend observe them:  Perhaps you need an eye witness.  A loyal friend may be able to get information that you just can't.
• Monitor thier personal computer:  This is where you start to get serious.  There is software out there that will allow you to read emails, IMs and monitor anything else your spouse is doing online.
• Hire private investigator:  This is a sure fire way to get the truth.  If you're wrong though there may be no turning back.
• Surveillance cameras:  Most people don't cheat in thier own home.  If you have a reason to suspect this though hidden cameras may give you the proof you need.

Please note that some of these practices may be illegal in your area.   Please check with law enforcement officials or your lawyer for legality before you engage in any suspect activity.