Help From A Friend

How to catch a cheating spouse

        A friend can often find out information that you cannot.  The most important thing here is to choose a friend that you know you can absolutely trust.

       Once you've decided who can help you, you need to make sure that they understand the plan.  The plan is for them to ask questions in a non aggressive, non threatening manner so that they can seem like they are an uninterested thrid party that just wants to be on the inside.  If people think that your friend is sent in by you to get some dirt on your significant other, they won't be any more likely to spill the beans than if you were standing there yourself.

       Your friend has to appear to be on thier own side.  Not yours.  They are just interested in gossiping and have no interest in telling you anything or breaking up your marrage.  They may even suggest that they think something is going on and see the response.  If they don't get any information, it may be time to play it off like a joke and move on.

       If your enlisted foot soldier is unable to turn anything up it may be time to start looking for more hard evidence and abandon the hearsay.  A good place to start is with your spouses cell phone history.