Have A Friend Observe Them

How to catch a cheating spouse

       Choosing the proper friend is key here.  If you have a friend that you can trust that your spouse does not know that is the ideal situation  If not you need to find a friend that will be able to act casual if they are spotted. 

       Your friend should be keeping an eye on your spouse when you are suspicious as to where they are at.  Perhaps you get a call from your spouse and are told that they will be working late, don't wait up.  This is a good time for your friend to head over to thier work and keep an eye on thier car for an hour or so when they are supposed to be getting off of work.  If your spouse does leave work at the normal time you know that you're on to something. 

       Photos are a great way to prove your case but an eyewitness is just as good.  When you later ask your spouse how working late was see what they tell you.  If they explain a terrible evening couped up in the office for hours it may be time to let them know that you're on to them.

       If you don't have a capable or trusted friend that can help out and you have a little extra money to spend on the project you can make sure that the job is done right.  You can actually hire a private investigator.  If you want to investigate further you can also observe everything that they do on thier personal computer.